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| Welcome to the Genetic Sexual Attraction (GSA) web site |
May 18, 2007 - 10:44 PM - by john
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 WELCOME TO GENETIC SEXUAL ATTRACTION
updated information January 22 2009
Barbara Gonyo
John (moderator)
This website was started with the hope of education and support on a subject that to most is:
1. misunderstood
2. shocking
3. to some unbelievable
4.taboo to society.
The website is meant to help those who are victims of separation and reunion of blood family members and who are unable to understand what they are feeling.
We are here to educate through others experience and to help you understand what GSA is or is not.
Communication with each other, to share as a support system what you are experiencing can be very helpful. This is the reason I continue the GSA site.
However, GSA is- NOT an incest site as we have always understood the subject of incest
- NOT a place to fantasize
- NOT for incest victims of childhood abuse or their abusers
- Not a porn site
Although it is hard to separate categories for some as they don't understand what GSA is and think they can link on here, I ask that they find another place for their stories.
GSA needs their own place to help and support others as they support each other. It is difficult to get through feelings of abandonment, loss and reunions.
So PLEASE do not post any other topics than "Reunited people, through adoption or divorce, separation or loss of contact with a blood relative.
All others need to go elsewhere to find what you are looking for because this is not your category.
Thank you,
Barbara Gonyo
email bgonyo@sbcglobal.net
CLICK HERE to download a teaser of my book!
** The teaser requires adobe reader to view, click here if you don't have it (most computers have it installed) **
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| A few words from Barb. |
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Jun 16, 2009 - 12:23 PM - by john
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To All Interested in GSA
It seems I'm popping up as a very negative person on the subject of GSA and need to clarify my feelings. I apologize to anyone who may think I feel superior to anyone who has acted on their GSA feelings. I want to clear up my convictions and let you know what I'm not getting across.
I started talking about GSA years ago when hardly anyone heard of GSA. I stuck my neck out and went so far as to publish my feelings for my son not only in my book but on TV when people were booing me and calling me crazy and telling me I needed a Shrink. I wasn't trying to win a popularity contest. I was trying to educate people to the fact that GSA is very strong and I was hoping to incite interest in people who would take up the cause and study the reasons this was happening.
My invitation to do this is just beginning to get people interested enough to fight for their rights. It has been a very long road and I'm a tired traveler and welcome those who are coming behind me to make people listen to their stories and do research on this subject.
I feel I know why GSA happens and have such strong feelings for people with GSA whether or not they have gone into a sexual relationship or not. I don't feel those who have not are superior to those who have. I try to point out that sometimes the beginnings of these relationships are so strong and uncontrollable and if we could get through these feelings and not be sexual sometimes it could save what may be lost by our families if we go through with what we feel. Reunions are so emotional and packed with feelings not dealt with for most of our lives. The reunion brings it all to a boil. I can't tell you how many people write to me after being in a GSA sexual relationship will say, "I wish I had some education on this subject when I was reunited".
The word incest is used very lightly and it is because no one has ever been able to prove that incest and GSA are not the same. Incest is a crime in our society. GSA should not be a crime. GSA is a result of emotions that seem beyond our control. These are adult people who are consenting to their feelings. These are not criminals who are molesting or taking advantage of someone for their own pleasure.
But due to the lack of distinction between the two terms, GSA is defined as incest by the world. This became an invitation to some people who have nothing to do with GSA but have incestuous relationships with relatives, what they thought was permission to go on the GSA website and put in shocking stories in hopes of getting some attention. This is not the purpose of the website. It is for education and support.
I hope this may clear up any statements I made that may lead anyone to think that I think incest and GSA are the same. I'm not here to judge anyone including myself. I just want GSA to be understood for what it really is. GSA is an all consuming love for someone we never should have been without in our lives. Circumstances separated them and reunion awakens their dormant feelings.
Barb Gonyo
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| Announcement from Barb |
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Apr 26, 2009 - 8:45 AM - by john
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She wanted me to pass this along to all the members here, please read.
Message from Barbara Gonyo:
I want to apologize for not being very active with the GSA site since my son died. I find it difficult to deal with my feelings and find that I can't get past the stages of grief and seem to be stuck in the first stage which is denial.
It has come to my attention from a reader that the site is being used by those who support incest so I decided it is time for me to make an appearance to once again state my feelings on this matter.
I want to tell all who come to this site that I don't make this site available for people to use it for their own purposes such as being an advocate for incest. The purpose of this site was to give people with GSA a place to learn about what GSA entails. My purpose is to educate so that when meeting a lost relative you will have the education to move cautiously through your relationship so as not to move into incest.
GSA is what we come across when we are unable to handle or know enough about our feelings in reunions to handle those feelings. If we move into a sexual relationship than there is a crossing the line that will most likely move us into a very painful situation. Yes there will be people on this site who will say that they don't care what the law is or what others say or feel because they want to be together no matter what.
That is their choice but it is not my choice to endorse incest in any way shape or form. GSA is NOT incest if it is just dealing with the feelings and moving on in the relationship. It is incest if it moves into a sexual relationship. This is why I try to keep the site going in order that people will know the difference.
For those who want to be a promoter of incest, please open a website of your own and don't confuse people with saying that we all agree on incest being the way to go.
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With that said, I will remove any links or mention of incest on this site per her request. This is not the place for that discussion.
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| Uk Magazine Journalist Seeks Gsa Couples For Stories - Payment For People I Interview |
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Jul 11, 2008 - 2:24 PM - by ALLEY1
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UK MAGAZINE JOURNALIST SEEKS GSA COUPLES FOR STORIES - PAYMENT FOR PEOPLE I INTERVIEW
Barbara has allowed me to post again on this site for which I am grateful. I posted last year and have done 6 GSA related magazine stories which have helped increase debate and also make people aware of GSA issues.
I would very much like to interview more people. This posting is meant with greatest respect.
As before we change your name and location. You would be photographed or you can send us photos but the articles would be only published in the UK. We can also use wigs if identification, once we change name, location age and occupation, is a problem.
I always pay the people I interview and we would be looking at $1000usd plus for your stories....your time is money and the story intimate.
The aim is to educate and raise awareness and show people the difference between incest and people not raised together who develop GSA relationships.
As I have said I have succesfully done stories on 6 couples from the site, with pictures and it has turned out very well.
I write for all the UK womens magazines and you can phone me on +44 7747 825 884
My email is alleynews@hotmail.com
My NATIONAL UNION OF JOURNALISTS MEMBRSHIP NUMBER IS NUJ937 491 IN THE UK
Please let me tell your story....we can also arange a read back of the story.
Kindest and with respect Alley Einstein
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| Announcement from Barb Gonyo |
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Dec 10, 2007 - 9:55 AM - by BarbGonyo
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With a heavy heart I want to let all of you who have supported me with prayers of healing for my son.
Friday December 7th 2007, he lost his battle with brain cancer that he had been fighting since 2003. He was 55 years old. I found him when he was 26 and had the priviledge of knowing him for 29 years. That is a blessing since many separated by adoption never get to find or know their lost loved ones.
I was not able to be with him when he passed. I arrived at the Hospice Center only to find out he died early in the morning.
His wife has inforned me that there will be a memorial service for him some time in January after the holidays at his Church.
I am grateful for the time we did have together and will continue to think of him and love him as I did from the day of his conception.
His children could use prayers to help them through this loss as they are young teen agers and it is difficult at any age to lose a loving parent.
It is because of him that this website exists to help others. He always supported me in what he felt I needed to do even if he didn't agree with all of my views. The greatest gift he ever gave me was to never send me away.
He will be missed by many. He will now have peace.
Barb G
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