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cap · 02-06-2010, 08:25 AM

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WorriedDad · 02-06-2010, 09:13 AM

Thank you cap, that means a lot, I knew she was mine in my heart when I saw her picture, Getting the DNA results make it real for my head too. I only slept about two hours last night I am so excited.

WorriedDad · 02-06-2010, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by jennnine

I wouldn't recommend punishing her at all. You want her to trust you enough to feel comfortable confiding in you, especially if she is sexually active.

UHHH, she is 25, married with two kids. I have no clue what you could be thinking that I would "Punish" her for, I'm the one that screwed up and didn't believe her mother when she said I was her father, I have 25 years to try and make up for, She has done nothing wrong, I don't even get the concept of Punishing her,,, for what?

osiris · 02-06-2010, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by WorriedDad

It is official! April is my daughter!! I am so happy and she says she is too. I have two grandchildren! YAY!!! Okay now I get to start spoiling the kids. WHOO HOOO

Hey, WD, that's great news.

You know, you really should think about changing your screen name, since it seems most of your worries have faded.

Might I suggest WHOOHOOOriedDad?

cbcpaul · 02-06-2010, 02:41 PM

WD.....congratulations my friend. Ha....your news made me smile!

paul

WorriedDad · 02-06-2010, 09:56 PM

Thank you everyone, This is so different from TB, I always new he was my son, April I honestly did not, and it is so exciting and I am so very happy, she is such a sweet young lady and her kids are so adorable, yeah, like Victor said, I got it bad.

Whyme · 02-07-2010, 02:17 AM

Congratulations!! What a great way to start 2010! xx

Victor · 02-07-2010, 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by WorriedDad

UHHH, she is 25, married with two kids. I have no clue what you could be thinking that I would "Punish" her for, I'm the one that screwed up and didn't believe her mother when she said I was her father, I have 25 years to try and make up for, She has done nothing wrong, I don't even get the concept of Punishing her,,, for what?

The poster was a troll and has been banned. I noticed you on line when I did that.

WorriedDad · 02-07-2010, 07:50 PM

Yeah that was just weird,,,I thought maybe they were responding to a different thread or something

WorriedDad · 03-01-2010, 01:01 PM

This is my final post in this thread. LostKitten leaves us in just over a week to start her new life with Tigerboy. My emotions are very mixed as I will miss her so much, and yet, I can tell as the day for her to leave grows closer, that she needs to go for her own good. I don't know how their story will end, but none of us ever know how our story will end. There is some comfort in knowing that Tigerboy will be good to her and look out for her. These past few months have been incredibly hard on our family, at times I think all of us have given up temporarily.
I never would have thought anything like this could happen in my family, but it did, my LK and TB are both smart, popular, and well liked by their peers. LK intends to finish high school in her new home city, and then off to collage. I keep having the urge to ask her not to leave, but I know she has to so I don't. I do tell her several times a day that I love her and will miss her. She seems pretty distant right now and I can understand that. All of her attention is focused on her future with TB. They both grow more anxious as "moving day" approaches. LK is increasingly frustrated with her siblings and almost seems on the edge of losing it at times. TB and I try to keep her calm, but there is only so much we can do. Today (well actually she is a Leap Day Baby) she turns 18, I spent some time this weekend looking at pictures of her over the years, she has been a treasure and a joy and one of the best things ever in my life. It is hard for me to believe that 18 years have already gone by. This morning she asked me if she could miss a day of school next week, I kind of laughed and said those decisions are up to her now, she is an adult and for better or worse, needs to determine her own path. The only thing I know for sure is there is a hole in my heart, and I cannot see it ever being full again.

WD

02-06-2010, 08:25 AM	#211
cap Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Plymouth, MA Posts: 197	edited by cap Last edited by cap : 03-21-2010 at 10:41 AM.

02-06-2010, 09:13 AM	#212
WorriedDad Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 192	Thank you cap, that means a lot, I knew she was mine in my heart when I saw her picture, Getting the DNA results make it real for my head too. I only slept about two hours last night I am so excited. __________________ It sucks riding the border of sane/nuts, you're never sure which side of the fence you are on.

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cbcpaul Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Somewhere in western Canada. Posts: 205	WD.....congratulations my friend. Ha....your news made me smile! paul __________________ Home, home again, I like to be here when I can.

02-06-2010, 09:56 PM	#216
WorriedDad Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 192	Thank you everyone, This is so different from TB, I always new he was my son, April I honestly did not, and it is so exciting and I am so very happy, she is such a sweet young lady and her kids are so adorable, yeah, like Victor said, I got it bad. __________________ It sucks riding the border of sane/nuts, you're never sure which side of the fence you are on.

02-07-2010, 07:50 PM	#219
WorriedDad Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 192	Yeah that was just weird,,,I thought maybe they were responding to a different thread or something __________________ It sucks riding the border of sane/nuts, you're never sure which side of the fence you are on.

02-07-2010, 02:17 AM	#217
Whyme Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 13	Congratulations!! What a great way to start 2010! xx

03-01-2010, 01:01 PM	#220
WorriedDad Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 192	This is my final post in this thread. LostKitten leaves us in just over a week to start her new life with Tigerboy. My emotions are very mixed as I will miss her so much, and yet, I can tell as the day for her to leave grows closer, that she needs to go for her own good. I don't know how their story will end, but none of us ever know how our story will end. There is some comfort in knowing that Tigerboy will be good to her and look out for her. These past few months have been incredibly hard on our family, at times I think all of us have given up temporarily. I never would have thought anything like this could happen in my family, but it did, my LK and TB are both smart, popular, and well liked by their peers. LK intends to finish high school in her new home city, and then off to collage. I keep having the urge to ask her not to leave, but I know she has to so I don't. I do tell her several times a day that I love her and will miss her. She seems pretty distant right now and I can understand that. All of her attention is focused on her future with TB. They both grow more anxious as "moving day" approaches. LK is increasingly frustrated with her siblings and almost seems on the edge of losing it at times. TB and I try to keep her calm, but there is only so much we can do. Today (well actually she is a Leap Day Baby) she turns 18, I spent some time this weekend looking at pictures of her over the years, she has been a treasure and a joy and one of the best things ever in my life. It is hard for me to believe that 18 years have already gone by. This morning she asked me if she could miss a day of school next week, I kind of laughed and said those decisions are up to her now, she is an adult and for better or worse, needs to determine her own path. The only thing I know for sure is there is a hole in my heart, and I cannot see it ever being full again. WD __________________ It sucks riding the border of sane/nuts, you're never sure which side of the fence you are on.

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