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Concerned · 07-09-2010, 01:35 AM

( English isn't my first language, so i hope i don't make to many misstakes)

Hi,

let me start by saying im puzzled to say the least.

Yesterday my sister told me that our father came out and told her he is in love with her
for over 20 years now.
My sister is 36 years of age, raised by her parents just as i am.
My parents are still married.
He also told her that when she was younger she tried to take keys out of hes pj's pocket touching
hes penis in the act, and it turned him on.
He also told her that when she used to fall asleep infront of the tv set, he carried her to her bedroom
making sure he had a hand on her breast.
My sister then tells me of incident that occured.
She was sleeping and woke up dad standing next to her and touching her but.
She told him she didn't like that, and wouldn't have any of it.
(she asumes she was between 12-14 years of age)
She assured me this was only once and nothing else ever happend.
My sister who's getting a divorce after 17 years of marriage, is afraid now that he will try and act on hes feelings once she lives by herself.
I want to adress him with this and encourage him to seek help (he's 62) but i am not sure
if i should tell my mother aswell, her world will colapse , they are married for 43 years now, she being 17 and him being 19 when they did.
Also even tho i'm not sure if hes a pedofile, or maybe shizo, he has a grandaughter at the age of
8 atm, whom he “loves” so much.
I think i am writing this 1- to try and see things in perspective, 2- to get some response and maybe
some advice.
As i said im puzzled to say the least.

Again my excuses for my poor English.

LostNTime · 07-09-2010, 08:49 AM

Hello Concerned. Fisrt off, there is a big difference between GSA and a pedofile. Your father touching his young teenage daughter isn't love in anyway at all, and shouldn't be left around any children.

semperfi72 · 07-10-2010, 06:09 PM

Yes I agree with lostNtime and there should be a great deal of concern. I would let someone know, makes sure you have all your ducks in a row, before you start, and remember, someone you love or maybe the two involved might turn against you, but stand strong. If your right about what your saying the truth will come out and someone will go to jail. For the GSA, for me is a whole new concept for, but its not molesting, consenting adults, play kids with other kids being kids experimenting, Consenting young adults too. But hopefully with the victim or victims there not in a situation where the victim might see it as love or somewhere along those lines, then there might be a some issues. Like you said your wording might be off but I dont think its that far off that it could be confused. I hope things work out and good luck. And if it turn out to be a pedophile situation, GET THEM OUT OF THAT SITUATION WITH THOSE BABIES!!!, always protect the babies.

johntoyhurry · 12-01-2010, 11:57 AM

The point of the story is to reveal that everyone has secrets. The secrets are different in each case, but we all have something that society forces us to hide. I hope the collection will be a positive step to highlight the fact that what we are, our similarities outweigh the differences.

tyG4JC · 12-06-2010, 04:22 PM

I am willing to speak to you about my experiences that so impacted my life if it will help you to understand GSA. This is supposed to be in response to the psychologist who wanted to understand but I am new to this type of forum and have not posted it correctly to be in answer to her post.

07-09-2010, 01:35 AM	#61
Concerned Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 1	puzzled ( English isn't my first language, so i hope i don't make to many misstakes) Hi, let me start by saying im puzzled to say the least. Yesterday my sister told me that our father came out and told her he is in love with her for over 20 years now. My sister is 36 years of age, raised by her parents just as i am. My parents are still married. He also told her that when she was younger she tried to take keys out of hes pj's pocket touching hes penis in the act, and it turned him on. He also told her that when she used to fall asleep infront of the tv set, he carried her to her bedroom making sure he had a hand on her breast. My sister then tells me of incident that occured. She was sleeping and woke up dad standing next to her and touching her but. She told him she didn't like that, and wouldn't have any of it. (she asumes she was between 12-14 years of age) She assured me this was only once and nothing else ever happend. My sister who's getting a divorce after 17 years of marriage, is afraid now that he will try and act on hes feelings once she lives by herself. I want to adress him with this and encourage him to seek help (he's 62) but i am not sure if i should tell my mother aswell, her world will colapse , they are married for 43 years now, she being 17 and him being 19 when they did. Also even tho i'm not sure if hes a pedofile, or maybe shizo, he has a grandaughter at the age of 8 atm, whom he “loves” so much. I think i am writing this 1- to try and see things in perspective, 2- to get some response and maybe some advice. As i said im puzzled to say the least. Again my excuses for my poor English.

07-10-2010, 06:09 PM	#63
semperfi72 Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 39	have to agree with lostntime Yes I agree with lostNtime and there should be a great deal of concern. I would let someone know, makes sure you have all your ducks in a row, before you start, and remember, someone you love or maybe the two involved might turn against you, but stand strong. If your right about what your saying the truth will come out and someone will go to jail. For the GSA, for me is a whole new concept for, but its not molesting, consenting adults, play kids with other kids being kids experimenting, Consenting young adults too. But hopefully with the victim or victims there not in a situation where the victim might see it as love or somewhere along those lines, then there might be a some issues. Like you said your wording might be off but I dont think its that far off that it could be confused. I hope things work out and good luck. And if it turn out to be a pedophile situation, GET THEM OUT OF THAT SITUATION WITH THOSE BABIES!!!, always protect the babies.

12-06-2010, 04:22 PM	#65
tyG4JC Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 1	willing I am willing to speak to you about my experiences that so impacted my life if it will help you to understand GSA. This is supposed to be in response to the psychologist who wanted to understand but I am new to this type of forum and have not posted it correctly to be in answer to her post. Last edited by tyG4JC : 12-06-2010 at 04:29 PM. Reason: not correctly posted to right person

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07-09-2010, 08:49 AM	#62
LostNTime Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 151	Hello Concerned. Fisrt off, there is a big difference between GSA and a pedofile. Your father touching his young teenage daughter isn't love in anyway at all, and shouldn't be left around any children.

12-01-2010, 11:57 AM	#64
johntoyhurry Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 3	The point of the story is to reveal that everyone has secrets. The secrets are different in each case, but we all have something that society forces us to hide. I hope the collection will be a positive step to highlight the fact that what we are, our similarities outweigh the differences.